August 7, 2024
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Hey Y'all, Mindful Brothers!
Prioritizing Mental Health: A Real Talk for Black Teen Males
Alright, let’s be real—mental health isn’t something a lot of us talk about, right? As Black teen guys, we’re taught to be strong, to push through, and to “man up” when things get tough. But what does that really mean? Does being strong mean ignoring how we feel? Does “manning up” mean pretending we’re not stressed, anxious, or even depressed? Nah, bro, it doesn’t. It’s time to talk about prioritizing our mental health because, honestly, our well-being depends on it.
Breaking the Stigma
For a long time, mental health has been treated like a taboo subject in our communities. We’re told to “pray about it,” “shake it off,” or “stop acting soft.” But here’s the truth—mental health struggles are real, and they don’t make you weak. In fact, acknowledging your feelings and dealing with them is one of the strongest things you can do.
Think about it: if you break your arm, you wouldn’t just “walk it off,” right? You’d get help. So why should it be any different when your mind is struggling? Anxiety, depression, stress—these things are just as real as any physical injury. The only difference is, people don’t always see them, so they don’t take them as seriously. But you should.
Why Mental Health Matters
Your mental health affects everything—your schoolwork, friendships, family relationships, sports, and even your physical health. Stress and anxiety can lead to headaches, trouble sleeping, loss of appetite, and even heart issues over time. Not to mention, when your mind isn’t in a good place, it’s harder to focus on your goals, make good decisions, or even enjoy life.
And let’s talk about emotions. Society teaches us that being emotional is a weakness, but that’s a lie. Emotions are human. They tell us what we need, whether it’s support, rest, or a change in our environment. Ignoring them doesn’t make them go away—it just makes them build up until they explode. That’s why you see so many dudes walking around angry all the time, lashing out, or feeling numb to everything. That’s what happens when you bottle things up instead of dealing with them.
Recognizing the Signs
So how do you know when your mental health needs attention? Here are some signs to look out for:
- You feel down or sad more often than not
- You don’t enjoy the things you used to love
- You feel constantly stressed or overwhelmed
- You’re always tired but have trouble sleeping
- You get irritated or angry easily
- You’re withdrawing from family and friends
- You feel hopeless or like nothing matters
If any of these sound familiar, it’s time to check in with yourself and take action.
How to Take Care of Your Mental Health
Now that we know mental health is important, let’s talk about ways to take care of it. Here are some real, practical steps you can take:
1. Talk About It
I know—it’s not always easy. But finding someone you trust to talk to can make a huge difference. It could be a parent, an older sibling, a mentor, a coach, or even a therapist. And if talking face-to-face feels like too much, try writing down your thoughts in a journal. The key is to get those feelings out instead of letting them pile up.
2. Find a Healthy Outlet
Sports, music, gaming, art—whatever helps you release stress in a healthy way, do more of that. Physical activity is especially great for your mental health because it releases endorphins, which help boost your mood. So, whether it’s hooping with your boys, lifting weights, or just taking a walk, get moving.
3. Cut Out Negative Energy
Who you surround yourself with matters. If you’re constantly around people who bring negativity, drama, or stress into your life, it’s time to set some boundaries. That goes for social media, too. If scrolling through your feed makes you feel insecure, angry, or drained, take a break from it. Protect your peace at all costs.
4. Get Your Sleep Right
Sleep is a game-changer. When you don’t get enough rest, everything feels worse. Aim for 7-9 hours of sleep a night, and try to stick to a schedule. Put your phone down at least 30 minutes before bed—trust me, the memes will still be there in the morning.
5. Don’t Be Afraid to Ask for Help
Therapy isn’t just for “crazy” people—that’s another myth we need to break. Talking to a therapist is like going to a coach for your mind. They can help you figure things out, develop coping strategies, and give you tools to manage stress and anxiety. If therapy feels like too big of a step, try looking for mental health resources in your school or community.
The Power of Self-Love
At the end of the day, prioritizing your mental health is about self-love. It’s about recognizing that you are valuable, that your feelings matter, and that you deserve to feel good. Taking care of your mind isn’t selfish—it’s necessary. When you prioritize yourself, you’re in a better place to chase your dreams, support your loved ones, and live the life you want.
Final Thoughts
If no one has told you today, let me be the first: You are important. Your feelings are valid. You deserve happiness and peace. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Prioritizing your mental health doesn’t make you weak—it makes you strong, aware, and ready to take on the world.
So, start today. Take one step toward better mental health, whether it’s talking to someone, cutting out negativity, or just getting some good sleep. Whatever it is, just start. Your future self will thank you.
Take care of yourself, bro. You got this.
Until next time,
Your boy Emory
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